I do not really understand the difficulty of this. You either trust someone or you don't. It is as simple as that. What I do not understand why people do not trust anyone for no reason. It should take a lot for someone to stop trusting you. I get how you lose your trust for someone when they lie to you, but that is just stupid. Every one lies. Even the most good? people have lied of couple times. Even you have. So just assume that every friend you have had lied to you.
Actions can also make you untrustworthy. They can screw up all the time and that is why you hardly let them do anything. But people make mistakes sometimes, but if most of the time they prove that they are, well in most words, awesome. Then just let their bounderies stretch out a little further. Let them prove that they can handel it.
Most people who have trust issues probably have them for a great reason. And it is not just because most people made them that way. All I am saying is that some people should trust more. Not be so gaurded. Unless there is a really awesome reason for it. The only problem is that everyone is different. A reason that you might think is stupid they might think is a pretty good one.
That is the end. Trust more, unless someone really screwed up.
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